Labor of Love

I'm smitten. I am completely and and utterly enraptured by Running.

Just a few short weeks ago, Running and I were going through a rough patch. We almost got counseling. Fret not, all is well now. Our relationship has been made anew by my last race.

Standing at the starting line, anticipating the gun, my mind started to wander. I thought about all of the preparation that had brought me to this place, to this feeling. Months of following The Training Plan- running when tired, hot, cold, sore, hungry, and worst of all, apathetic. Hours spent prepping for runs- rationing nutrition, studying trail maps, ensuring gear was ready, arranging babysitting, Body Gliding EVERYTHING. Weeks spent sick because my body wasn't recovering as quickly as I needed it to. Here I was. Moments away from the test of my preparation. A calm overtook me. I mentally apologized to Running for being such a sissy the past three weeks and for putting up such a fight. Running had never let me down before; why did I think, that after 16 years of loyal courtship, Running would abandon me? Silly, Lara.

While I have fun with triathlons and, more specifically, cycling, nothing compares to the relationship I have with Running. It is the truest measure of ones self. It is the purest form of being. It will not be encumbered or adulterated. To run, all I have to do is step outside and go. Technically, I don't even need shoes (and sometimes I don't even have those!). As much as I enjoy cycling, I'll never have a few grand to drop on a full carbon bike, or a super fancy wheel set. So, I'm essentially limited in my performance by what I can afford to spend. Sure, there is equipment that accompanies me on my runs, but I can't buy a nicer water bottle to make me faster. Running is me, and nothing else.

Running is where I find myself when I'm lost, where I soak up the beauty of God's creation, where I connect with my running partners, where everything makes sense. Running has always kept me safe. When my life was in a place that it clearly didn't need to be, Running kept me from falling apart. The strength that I found through Running was the same strength I used to make the change that I so desperately needed. Through Running, I have found love. For my surroundings: fiery Myakka sunrises, quiet Siesta sunsets, a full moon lighting the sidewalk when the street lights are asleep. For my body: pushing it to the limits, asking more than I should, and it responding when it mattered most. For my mind: coming through when body wasn't compelled to cooperate. For my friends and family: their acceptance of my quirks and unwavering support of my goals. For my daughter: less than two years old, she woke up early, stayed up late, sat in a running stroller for as far as 18 miles. This little creature was always eager for the run. Yelling "Ready, set, GOOOOO!!!" when stoping at a red light waiting to cross the street. For my Michael. I can unequivocally say that I have found my mate in this life. He doesn't complete me, he amplifies me. I wouldn't be so in love with Running if I weren't so in love with him. Because what fun is it to love something so much if you can't share it with the someone you love?

I can't help myself but to include a line from a song by Rise Against.

"If love is a labor, I'll slave till the end"

This love is most definitely a labor, but therein lies the beauty. For why have something that isn't worthy of effort?

It's all in your head.

Maybe you've heard that I ran 50 miles on Saturday. If you haven't, then I'm surprised, because the braggart in me hasn't exactly been subtle about it. Why would anyone want to run 50 miles? Let's discuss.

You might expect the starting line of an ultra marathon to be filled with tall, lithe, Adonis-like figures, all in their 20's and 30's, blissfully in their athletic prime. You would be greatly mistaken. There is no age or body type that is best suited for ultra running. (The third overall finisher was a 51 year old woman. She finished almost two hours before I did.) But there is a mentality that is ideal. Many people have said that someone would have to be crazy to run 50 miles. I am not crazy. I am unafraid. Unafraid of pain, unafraid of the unknown, unafraid of the effort, unafraid of failure. I can tell you that I haven't always felt like this. While I've been running for a very long time, and I've never been one to shy away from a challenge, it wasn't until the birth of my daughter that I was truly "set free". After experiencing my body grow, birth, and feed another human being, I realized that it can do anything. Anything. The only limiting factor was my preconceived notions of what was normal and expected. My limitations were all in my head.

I'm not going to lie to you and say that I've managed to Jedi mind-trick myself into running this kind of mileage without pain or fatigue. I experienced plenty of lows in those 50 miles where I had to choose how I was going to deal with the Suck Factor. In my mind, there were three options: succumb to it, refuse to acknowledge it, or embrace it. Succumbing meant quitting, and that wasn't going to happen. So, I started early in the race by refusing the pain and mental fatigue. Mile after mile, I ignored their quiet whispers until they became screaming chants, eventually making their presence mandatory. Since ignoring them was no longer working, I challenged them to break me. Focusing intentionally on every sore muscle, the heat of the sun, the difficulty of the terrain, the weight of my Camelbak on my tired shoulders, I begged for more hurt. I knew that if I let myself experience all of the pain and I was still moving forward, then I had won. The only thing that could possibly stop me from finishing was self-doubt, and I didn't doubt my ability for a second. And had I, my resolve would have carried me through (it's always good to have a Plan B). Plan B was not necessary that day. At mile 34, I was soaring. I had transcended. I was invincible. The rush that I felt was indescribable, and three days later, I'm still on it. That high carried me the remaining 16 miles to the end. I crossed the finish line next to my husband and my friend (The Boys). As liquid emotion streamed from my eyes, the three of us claimed that moment as ours. We were victorious, not simply in the race, but over the past four months. Through the miles, the injuries, and the heartbreak, we had been there for each other,and we finished together. That moment was our reward, and it will be with us forever.

I have no plans of settling with 50 miles. What's next? An Ironman, 100k, 100 miler? Probably all of them. But first, I will take time to rest. Then maybe I'll try to improve my 50k time, wreak some havoc on the local triathlon scene, FINALLY get around to running a half-marathon. Whatever I decide to do, I'll attack it with the confidence that I will prevail. Most importantly, I'm going to enjoy every minute.